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		<title>Does God Still Use Natural Disaster as a Means of Judgment?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 12:38:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Duran</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the devastating Oklahoma tornadoes, some were quick to use the event as evidence of God&#8217;s non-existence. The day after, J.M. Green at Debunking Christianity asked Why do Christians pray after disaster? Who would want to be comforted by someone who was able to help during a crisis but stood idly by? &#8230;If you are [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>After the devastating Oklahoma tornadoes, some were quick to use the event as <strong><a href="http://debunkingchristianity.blogspot.com/2013/05/why-do-christians-pray-after-disaster.html#more"><img class="wp-image-22554 alignright" alt="atheist-oklahoma" src="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/atheist-oklahoma.jpg" width="293" height="434" /></a></strong>evidence of God&#8217;s non-existence. The day after, J.M. Green at Debunking Christianity asked <a href="http://debunkingchristianity.blogspot.com/2013/05/why-do-christians-pray-after-disaster.html#more" target="_blank">Why do Christians pray after disaster?</a></p>
<blockquote><p>Who would want to be comforted by someone who was able to help during a crisis but stood idly by? &#8230;If you are a Christian, does something like this shake your faith in God at all? Do you feel an inner conflict about praying for the victims of a disaster in which their own prayers for protection and deliverance were unanswered? Can you truly speak of ‘miraculous’ survivals, while ignoring all those who did not survive?</p></blockquote>
<p>Frankly, those are good questions. Of course, the conclusion that Debunking Christianity assumes is that natural disaster proves the non-existence of a benevolent, loving God. As I argued <a href="http://mikeduran.com/2011/03/does-natural-disaster-prove-gods-non-existence/" target="_blank">HERE</a>, natural disaster and random human suffering could prove lots of things about the nature of the Universe. Here’s just four:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>God exists, but is evil.</strong></li>
<li><strong>God exists, but is indifferent and morally neutral.</strong></li>
<li><strong>God exists, but is powerless to do anything.</strong></li>
<li><strong>God exists, but allows such calamity for another purpose</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>Then, on the other hand, you have those believers who are quick to attach divine judgment or retribution to such calamities. Like pastor John Piper who, within 24 hours of the event, tweeted this:</p>
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<p>Lest you think that&#8217;s not what Piper&#8217;s inferring, consider that the day after tornadoes and storms slammed the Midwest in 2009, the prolific author and pastor claimed <a href="http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=31109" target="_blank">the tornado was a “warning” to the Lutheran denmoination against approving homosexuality</a>. Then there was Piper&#8217;s take on <a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/taste-see-articles/tsunami-and-repentance" target="_blank">the Asian tsunamia</a> as a warning to &#8220;Repent!&#8221;<em id="yui_3_7_3_1_1369223582696_241"><strong id="yui_3_7_3_1_1369223582696_240"></strong></em></p>
<p>Frankly, this is one of my problems with the neo-Reformers of today and Calvinism in general.</p>
<p>Is the Oklahoma tornado a chance for us to repent? Indeed! In fact, <em>waking up this morning was also a chance for me to repent</em>. Every day we live and breath is a chance to repent. Could a natural disaster be one reason? You bet. But so could winning the lottery.</p>
<p><strong>Underneath all this is a question many Christians seem reluctant to face: Does God still use natural disasters as a means of judgment?</strong> And, if so, could the Oklahoma tornado be one of them?</p>
<p>One cannot read the Bible and not come to the conclusion that God is the God of nature, and can use it to do His bidding. Earthquakes, floods, and famines are clearly at God’s disposal. So <strong>the issue is not whether God can and does use natural disasters, but knowing when said catastrophes are direct judgments from God. </strong>I mean, is every fire<strong>, </strong>every volcanic eruption, every typhoon a heavenly rebuke?<strong><br />
</strong></p>
<p>Complicating the issue is this — <strong>if the Chinese earthquake, Katrina, or the Asian tsunami were judgments from God, why were so many Christians affected?</strong> In the Old Testament, God spared His people from wrath (the plagues of Egypt, the parting of the Red Sea, Sodom and Gomorrah, etc.). Likewise, many Christian organizations existed in Haiti before the 2010 earthquake. Yet they were not unaffected by the earthquake. So why would God judge Haiti and allow so many of His children to be injured, even killed? Were they just collateral damage?</p>
<p><strong>The danger in attributing natural calamities to the judgment of God is not in associating God’s judgment with said calamities, but in claiming to know what specific calamities are or are not part of that judgment</strong>. This, I think, was Pat Robertson’s problem when he claimed the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aQ4dA6kZsEs" target="_blank">Haiti had a pact with the devil</a> and this was the Divine result. Who gave him a heavenly Bat-phone? How can he possibly know if this was God’s doing or just part of living in a fallen world? The truth is, none of us can perfectly know these things. At the least, <strong>events like the Oklahoma tornado should humble us, remind us of our own frailty, and reawaken our need for God. Not force us into making judgments, predictions, and altar calls.</strong></p>
<p>But this begs the question: Does God still use natural disasters as a means of judgment? I think there’s three reasons why Christians are reluctant to answer that in the affirmative.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">First — <strong>We fear that if we concede an event might be part of God’s judgment, we relinquish having to help the victims.</strong> The Bible clearly speaks about helping orphans, refugees, the homeless and hurting. But what if their suffering is due, in part, to the judgment of God? And does conceding that judgment let us off the hook? It’s a bit of a conundrum for believers, so we avoid answering in the affirmative.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Second — <strong>If we concede that an event might be part of God’s judgment, we fear that bringing assistance would be meddling. </strong>This was what prompted Sharon Stone to suggest that <a href="http://mikeduran.com/2008/05/is-helping-earthquake-victims-bad-karma/" target="_blank">helping victims of the Chinese earthquake was &#8220;bad karma.&#8221;</a> By helping victims of bad karma, we short-circuit their cycle. (Frankly, it’s also one of the things that has made American evangelicals so slow to respond to the AIDS crisis. ) However, Scripture does not put stipulations on when we should show kindness and mercy, and when we should withhold it.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Third — <strong>Christians are afraid to concede God’s use of natural disaster because of what it potentially makes God look like</strong>. I think many Christians are on a mission to rehabilitate God’s “Old Testament” image. They dislike having to concede divine judgment of any kind. It’s led to a lot of theological hogwash, like those who conclude <a href="http://zoecarnate.wordpress.com/2009/11/21/is-god-a-recovering-practitioner-of-violence/" target="_blank">God is a recovering practitioner of violence</a>. But either God is “the same yesterday, today, and forever” (Heb. 13:8), or He isn’t. As such, we must believe that the “Judge of all the earth” (Gen. 18:25) shall do right.</p>
<p>Any literate, Bible-believing Christian would have to conclude that God can still use natural disasters as a means of judgment. The important thing is where we go with that conclusion once we make it.</p>
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		<title>The Futurians vs. New Fandom</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 12:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Duran</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are many odd tidbits in Strange Angel, George Pendle&#8217;s biography of rocket scientist and occultist Jack Parsons. Parsons died in a mysterious explosion in 1952 in his Pasadena home, but not before becoming one of the world&#8217;s most influential rocket scientists and a passionate devotee to the teachings of Aleister Crowley, the self-proclaimed &#8220;wickedest [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>There are many odd tidbits in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Strange-Angel-Otherworldly-Scientist-Whiteside/dp/0156031795" target="_blank">Strange Angel</a>, George Pendle&#8217;s biography of rocket scientist and occultist Jack Parsons. Parsons died in a mysterious <a href="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/parsons_comic.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-22544 alignleft" alt="parsons_comic" src="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/parsons_comic.jpg" width="250" height="334" /></a>explosion in 1952 in his Pasadena home, but not before becoming one of the world&#8217;s most influential rocket scientists and a passionate devotee to the teachings of Aleister Crowley, the self-proclaimed &#8220;wickedest man in the world.&#8221; Parsons was a favorite in the local, budding science fiction community in nearby Los Angeles, rubbing shoulders with the likes of Ray Bradbury and Robert Heinlein.</p>
<p>One interesting sidenote in the book is the intersection between the science community and the science <em>fiction</em> community. While some saw the genre as envisioning real scientific possibilities, like rockets, space flight, and interplanetary travel, others saw it as pulpy nonsense. Science fiction writers were anxious to embrace Parsons because he embodied the cutting edge technologies so important to their own stories, not to mention his metaphysical eccentricities. But not everyone in the science fiction community saw their craft as a means for helping humanity and forging real futures. And thus a division developed. It showed itself at the first World Science Fiction Convention of 1939.</p>
<blockquote><p>As the world was being wracked by political ideologies, so the science fiction community had become riven by its own byzantine political struggles, as if mimicking the tumultuous events on the world stage. Two radically opposed fan organizations, the Futurians and New Fandom, had declared that they would be attending the convention. The politicized Futurians, whose ranks included a young Isaac Asimov, held that science fiction should rise to &#8220;a vision [of] a greater world, a greater future for the whole of mankind, and [should] utilize&#8230; idealistic convictions for aid in a generally cooperative and diverse movement for the betterment of the world among democratic, impersonal, and unselfish lines.&#8221; Opposed to them was New Fandom, the group that had organized the convention, who insisted that science fiction be read purely as entertainment. To them, the Futurians were &#8220;dangerously red&#8221;; indeed, many Futurians were also members of the American Communist Party. Scuffles ensued and some Futurians were barred from entering the convention.</p></blockquote>
<p>Apparently, the Futurians had suffered a split of their own. According to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Futurians" target="_blank">the Wikipedia article</a>, it all began at the New York &#8220;Boys Science Fiction League&#8221;:</p>
<blockquote><p>As time passed, some of people within this league, started to think in non-conformist ways, in the style of H.G. Wells. This upset a number of the other members of the league and contributed to some people leaving. This split lead to two main groups being formed. Members of one new group came to be called the Futurians and the rest of the old New York group, went on to become the Lunarians. The Lunarian&#8217;s goal was to make traveling to the moon and living there, a reality. The Futurian group focused on changing the way people lived and worked.</p></blockquote>
<p>Futurians. Lunarians. New Fandom. I find this ideological wrestling match inside the science fiction community quite fascinating. In many ways, the creators of American pop culture are still enmeshed in this debate. Just this morning, Yahoo ran an article on <a href="http://movies.yahoo.com/blogs/movie-talk/9-11-looms-large-over-star-trek-darkness-211915647.html" target="_blank">political commentary in the new Star Trek movie</a> (caution: there are spoilers in this article!). One of the actors in the film, Benedict Cumberbatch said:</p>
<blockquote>
<p id="yui_3_8_1_1_1369133263597_491">&#8220;It’s no spoiler I think to say that there’s a huge backbone in this film that’s a comment on recent U.S. interventionist overseas policy from the Bush, Cheney and Rumsfeld era.&#8221;</p>
</blockquote>
<p>I know. I know. This is a rather tired meme. Nevertheless, this would have made Gene Roddenberry, Star Trek creator, proud. Roddenberry was a Futurian (or is it, Lunarian) at heart, using the then TV series as a means of social and political commentary. And, oh, entertainment.</p>
<p>Anyway, the hostilities between New Fandom and the Futurians provide a glimpse into a continuing ideological struggle in the legislators of pop culture. Should our stories be purely entertainment? Or should we approach storytelling like the Futurians, as a tool for the &#8220;betterment of the world&#8221;?</p>
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		<title>Is Your Church &#8220;Goth Friendly&#8221;?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 13:34:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Duran</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This list of &#8220;goth friendly&#8221; churches (directory header &#8211;&#62;) suggests that &#8220;a list of &#8216;subculture friendly&#8217; churches should not even be necessary. All churches should be friendly &#38; loving to ALL people.&#8221; One of the churches listed describes their target group as individuals who are: &#8230;unique, interesting, industrial, gothic, atheist, lost, oppressed, possessed, agnostic, disbelieving, fallen, in [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/goth-friendly.jpg"><img class="wp-image-22522 alignright" alt="goth-friendly" src="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/goth-friendly.jpg" width="315" height="187" /></a>This <a href="http://www.christiangoth.com/churchdirectory.htm" target="_blank">list of &#8220;goth friendly&#8221; churches</a> (directory header &#8211;&gt;) suggests that &#8220;a list of &#8216;subculture friendly&#8217; churches should not even be necessary. All churches should be friendly &amp; loving to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">ALL people</span>.&#8221; One of the churches listed describes their target group as individuals who are:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8230;unique, interesting, industrial, gothic, atheist, lost, oppressed, possessed, agnostic, disbelieving, fallen, in a void  or think religion messed this whole world up</p></blockquote>
<p>Aside from being hard to read (black backgrounds tend to do that) and having numerous broken links, it provides a fascinating glimpse into an age-old problem facing the Christian Church.</p>
<blockquote>
<h2><em><span style="color: #800000;">Just how far should the Church go to reach outsiders and sub-cultures? </span></em></h2>
</blockquote>
<p>One church answered that by crafting a service specifically aimed at goths. From <a href="http://www.religionnewsblog.com/22997/goth-liturgy" target="_blank">Church Tries Goth Liturgy</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Churches continually strive to attract fresh faces into their flocks, and one of the challenges they face is getting the attention of younger people who may have turned their backs, according to the Rev. Lou Divis, deacon in charge at St. George’s Episcopal Church.</p>
<p>To address this quandary, the church on Main Street in Nanticoke embraced a new approach called the Goth Liturgy on Saturday night at 9. Unlike the traditional Sunday-morning service in which an organist, choir and congregation join in energetic hymns of praise, the Goth Liturgy is more “meditative,” Divis said.</p>
<p>The church is dimly light, lined with candles and full of the aroma of burning incense. Gregorian chants from the 12th century and faith-based music from techno bands such as Depeche Mode and Love Spirals Downward played softly during the hymn segments.</p>
<p>The servers were dressed in black robes and the guest celebrant, the Rev. Peter D’Angio from St. Luke‘s Episcopal Church in Scranton, was clothed in a flowing white robe. The sanctuary had a noticeably more intimate ambiance.</p>
<p>About 30 worshippers participated, some manifest with the Goth look.</p>
<p>Divis called the service a “different kind of spirituality”…</p></blockquote>
<p>If you remove the specifics &#8212; black eyeliner, trenchcoats, and hymns by Depeche Mode &#8212; this isn&#8217;t much different from the dilemmas faced by the early church.</p>
<p>Jewish Christians struggled to assimilate Gentiles, tried to impose Jewish laws, and ban all remnants of paganism. Isolation, not assimilation, was the result. Church history is marked by such tensions. For instance, Christian mission organizations are continually debating the most effective ways to introduce the Gospel to unreached people groups. Should they condemn tribal myths and pagan practices or use them as bridges to a “greater reality”? Should they introduce “alternative worship” or integrate the locals’ customs? The Jesus Movement was pummeled by conservative pastors for allowing hippies in the house of God. After all, everyone knows organs and zithers are more “spiritual” than stratocasters and  bass drums.</p>
<p>But <strong>culture and credo are two different things</strong>. That’s true for the goth subculture. Wearing black is not equivalent to living in the dark. Unless we’re prepared to say that goths cannot be saved, we must concede a middle-ground. It’s why sites like <a href="http://www.christiangoth.com/" target="_blank">ChristianGoth.com</a> exist and explore such issues as “Obsession with Death” and “The Proper Christian Goth Attire.” Different, I know. But isn’t such internal jimmying how the Gospel gets assimilated in new sub-cultures?</p>
<p>So is a Goth liturgy so far off?</p>
<p>Of course, evangelism has its limits. <strong>We need not become pagan to reach pagans</strong>. But in the end, the real question is not whether a person sports black eyeliner, tongue studs, and army boots, but whether or not the Gospel is preached and embraced.</p>
<p>But there&#8217;s a flip side to this.</p>
<p><strong>Ideally, the Church is better off when sub-cultures are integrated, not separated</strong>. I doubt that the heavenly multitudes will be partitioned based on their musical tastes, clothing, and accessories. As such, goths <em>should</em> worship alongside straight-laced middle class suburbanites, and vice-versa. I mean, being friendly to goths is one thing. But structuring a church that caters to the goth subculture &#8212; or ANY subculture for that matter &#8212; is another story.</p>
<p>In his book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802443559/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=211189&amp;creative=373489&amp;creativeASIN=0802443559&amp;link_code=as3&amp;tag=d01da-20" target="_blank">Generation Ex-Christian</a>, Drew Dyck suggests that one of the reasons that Christian youths grow up and leave the Church is because they don&#8217;t develop significant relationship with other, more mature Christians. They are segregated with other youths and isolated from the church at large. Thus, Dyck advises:</p>
<blockquote><p>One of the major reasons they [Christian youths] drifted away is because the relational bonds to committed Christians were weak or nonexistent. In order to win them back, we must rectify that destructive isolation. When you bring them to church, seek to widen their circle of Christian friends. Don’t let them settle into secluded pockets of the congregation. Introduce them to older Christians, and younger ones. Ask them to serve. Invite them to small groups, prayer meetings, and fellowship times, places where they can grow in the faith and form lasting relationships with mature Christians.</p>
<p><strong>…Those young people who had relationships to older Christians were far less likely to abandon their faith.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>A similar principle applies to any sub-culture. It&#8217;s as we connect with others outside of our demographic and spiritual comfort zone that our faith grows. So while crafting a &#8220;Goth Liturgy&#8221; may attract and engage goths, in the long run it potentially sequesters them from other believers and allows them to “settle into secluded pockets of the congregation,” producing a &#8220;destructive isolation.&#8221;</p>
<p>One of the great blessings of the Christian Church is its ability to find different expressions in different cultures. But whether or not the Church should integrate or segregate sub-cultures is another story.</p>
<p>So is your church sub-culture friendly? And should it be?</p>
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		<title>Cormac McCarthy&#8217;s &#8220;The Road&#8221; &#8212; Masterpiece or Piece of Crap?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 12:38:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Duran</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cormac McCarthy&#8217;s The Road won the 2006 Pulitzer Prize. It also currently has 312 one-star reviews at Amazon and over 8,000 one-star reviews on Goodreads. Pulitzer Prize. Lotsa one- star reviews. Best book of the year. Worst book of the year. Classic! Piece of crap! I read the book when it first came out. It [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Cormac McCarthy&#8217;s <em>The Road</em> won the 2006 Pulitzer Prize. It also currently has <a href="http://www.amazon.com/The-Road-Oprahs-Book-Club/dp/0307387895/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top" target="_blank">312 one-star reviews at Amazon</a> and <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6288.The_Road?ac=1#other_reviews" target="_blank">over 8,000 one-star reviews on Goodreads</a>.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-22498" alt="the-road-cormac-mccarthy" src="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/the-road-cormac-mccarthy-194x300.jpg" width="194" height="300" />Pulitzer Prize. Lotsa one- star reviews.</p>
<p>Best book of the year. Worst book of the year.</p>
<p>Classic! Piece of crap!</p>
<p>I read the book when it first came out. It was my first (and only) Cormac McCarthy novel. I loved it. I enjoyed the minimalist use of language, the sparse, bleak, apocalypse the characters traversed. <em>The Road</em> was my favorite book of that year. It won numerous awards and critical praise, which I thought McCarthy deserved.</p>
<p>As expected, there were many five-star reviews calling it a masterpiece, a literary achievement, a work of art. And then there were the dissenters. No, not the readers who just couldn&#8217;t get into the story and didn&#8217;t like the punctuated, staccato, cadence. Not those who tried to be objective and weigh positives and negatives. Not those who retained a semblance of composure. No. I&#8217;m talking about reviewers who utterly, completely, quite perfectly, despised <em>The Road.</em></p>
<p>The antipathy towards <em>The Road</em> seems to fall into one (if not all) of three gripes:</p>
<ul>
<li>It&#8217;s too bleak</li>
<li>It&#8217;s stylistically bad</li>
<li>It&#8217;s really over-hyped</li>
</ul>
<p>So there&#8217;s lots of Grammar Nazis and Establishment Haters in the mix.</p>
<p>You want some examples? Okay.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span class="readable" id="reviewTextContainer38042222"><span id="freeTextContainer8579662510747087071"><em>This book is vile. This book is a lie. It is a festering wasteland of despair and sadistic pathos pretending to contain some freakish remnant of love.</em><strong> </strong><em><strong>&#8211; </strong></em></span></span>Richard</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Recall a urinal displayed as art? This is similar, but less thoughtful.</em> &#8212; slithy tove</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span class="readable" id="reviewTextContainer35257193"><span id="freeText3885469292486264977"><em>The Road, I can honestly say, is the worst book I have ever read</em>.&#8211; Robin</span></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>I can only recommend this book to aspiring writers wanting to know what it takes to win the Pulitzer Prize. Clearly, punctuation, plot, character development and consistent narrative aren&#8217;t necessary, but drawing vague metaphors regarding human nature and the declination of western society are encouraged</em>. &#8212; C. Maxwell</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span class="readable" id="reviewTextContainer19226230"><span id="freeText1370548884668379747"><em>tragedy porn</em> &#8212; Keely<br />
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Apparently, once you&#8217;re a famous author you can say, &#8220;f*** the rules of the English language, I&#8217;ll do what I want.&#8221;</em> &#8212; John</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>This is my first Cormac McCarthy novel, and I have little doubt it will be my last. It is not hyperbole to say that *I* could write better. If freestanding gerund phrases, missing apostrophes, and minimal character development are all it takes to win the Pulitzer Prize, then &#8220;I weep for the future&#8221; of American Literature</em>. &#8212; axeeugene</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>the literary equivalent of The Emperor&#8217;s New Clothes</em> &#8212; W. Morris</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>interminably dreary and interminably repetitious, repetitious, repetitious, repetitious, repetitious, repetitious&#8230;</em> &#8212; K. Bunker</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>I don&#8217;t have the stomach to wade through poor english and even poorer logic &#8212; ever for a supposedly good story. My God, what has happened to our language, to our critical faculities </em>(sic)<em>?</em> &#8212; Jonas</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>A tedious and dreary book</em> &#8212; John</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>&#8230;a tour through a macabre mind, a desolate wilderness of the desperate soul. If by some feat of technology or magic, one could take a guided tour through the hell of another&#8217;s life, any sane person would ask &#8211; of all human experience why go here? McCarthy scores for those who are such tourists of despair. But even on technical merit, there is no redemption for this exercise in spiritual torture. Get it out of my head &#8211; it&#8217;s like the mind chewing grubs from the Wrath of Khan</em>.&#8211; Michael</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>linguistic debauchery</em> &#8212; John Doe</p>
<p>Perhaps this is just the downside of democracy. I mean, if everybody&#8217;s got an opinion and can publicly air it, then bring on the torches and pitchforks. Maybe it&#8217;s a backlash against snooty critics trying to jam &#8220;literature&#8221; down our throats. Or perhaps we have a terminal case of the &#8220;writing rules.&#8221;</p>
<p>Whatever the reason for the revulsion, I can see not calling <em>The Road</em> a masterpiece. But calling it &#8220;<span class="readable" id="reviewTextContainer38042222"><span id="freeTextContainer8579662510747087071">a festering wasteland of despair and sadistic pathos&#8221; just seems, well, a little over the top.</span></span></p>
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		<title>Interview w/ Debut Author Christopher Fisher</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I was thrilled to hear that long-time writing friend Christopher Fisher had released his first novel A History of Stone and Steel. Chris and I had crossed paths a while back at an online writer&#8217;s group. It wasn&#8217;t long after that he enrolled in the Stonecoast Creative Writing program, received his MFA, and resurfaced [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>So I was thrilled to hear that long-time writing friend Christopher Fisher had released his first novel <a href="http://www.amazon.com/History-Stone-Steel-Christopher-Fisher/dp/0988697408" target="_blank">A History of Stone and Steel</a>. Chris and I had crossed paths a while back at an online writer&#8217;s group. It wasn&#8217;t long after that he enrolled in the Stonecoast Creative Writing program, received his MFA, and resurfaced as Editor-in-Chief for <a href="http://www.reliefjournal.com/" target="_blank">Relief Journal</a>. He&#8217;s since started his own indie label and published his first novel. Chris took a few minutes to answer some questions about his writing journey, his experience as an editor, his new book, and why the things his fictional narrator says needs to be &#8220;taken with a grain of salt.&#8221;</p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>MIKE</strong></span>: <em>I think we initially crossed paths back in Dave Long’s Faith and Fiction forum. Since then, you’ve studied creative writing, became an editor at Relief Journal, and published a book. People often ask about an author’s “path to publication.” What were some of the most important steps along that “path” for you?</em></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>CHRISTOPHER</strong></span>: That’s right, Mike. The old F*I*F. Hard to believe that was <a href="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/chrisfisher.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-22484" alt="chrisfisher" src="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/chrisfisher.jpg" width="113" height="150" /></a>almost ten years ago, which was probably about midway through my “path.” And I think you’ve mentioned most of the big steps. Finishing my MFA in Creative Writing was a definite milestone. In the Stonecoast program I got the chance to work with some great teachers and mentors. They were really tough on me and my writing, wouldn’t let me get away with a lot of the cheats and shortcuts I’d relied on up till then.</p>
<p>Getting into editing was also huge. When you spend hours every day for ten years tinkering with other people’s writing, you really begin to see a story less as a fixed work of art—like a sculpture—and more as a machine with many parts that can be moved around and manipulated, or even replaced or taken out completely to improve the overall performance and function. It was a major breakthrough for me to begin seeing my own drafts through the eyes of an editor, instead of an author with a natural emotional attachment to the words on the page.</p>
<p>But to be perfectly honest, I don’t know if any of those things had much to do directly with the “path to publication.” In fact, I think it’s often dangerous to set out with the goal of publication in mind. At least it was for me. I tried that route almost immediately after high school, and then spent the next ten years failing—completely and utterly—at getting anything published, though I really, really tried. I gave that up finally when I was 29 and decided it was time to admit I just wasn’t the writer I thought I was. I went back to college to finish my B.A.—because I had dropped out at 23 to “become a writer”—and it was only then that things finally started happening, little by little. I began working as an editor on campus with the CJ College and managed to place a few short pieces with <em>The Wittenburg Door</em> and some local journals. Bit by bit I got my foot a little further into various doors, learned a lot about the publishing business, and the<a name="_GoBack"></a>n finally last year realized I had all the skills and experience needed to publish a book on my own. So that’s what I did.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>MIKE</strong></span>: <em>So tell me about </em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/History-Stone-Steel-Christopher-Fisher/dp/0988697408" target="_blank">A History of Stone and Steel</a><em>, the gist, what prompted you to write it, and the audience you’re aiming at.</em></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>CHRISTOPHER</strong></span>: Without giving too much away, it’s essentially about a man in all kinds of pain going off the rails just long enough to begin to see who he <a href="http://www.amazon.com/History-Stone-Steel-Christopher-Fisher/dp/0988697408"><img class="alignright  wp-image-22485" alt="stone-and-steel" src="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/stone-and-steel.jpg" width="208" height="322" /></a>really is. The narrator, Paul Keppel, has recently developed chronic and unexplained headaches, and upon hearing that his grandfather—a real lightning-rod of a charismatic preacher—is dying from brain cancer, he becomes convinced he’s also going to die. Paul’s grandfather has told him since he was a child that God has a special plan for him, though he’s never seen one materialize, and he suspects that “failure to arrive” has something to do with a work-place disaster that sent him off course. A good half of the novel is set in the past, as Paul reflects and tries to work out what happened that summer 21 years ago, and why. In the present, though, the awareness of his mortality becomes a catalyst that slowly strips away his normal inhibitions (beginning with the filter between his mouth and brain) as he rushes to find as much closure as possible while he still can.</p>
<p>What prompted me to write it was, to tell the truth, a fiction packet deadline for my MFA program. I had a deadline in 30 days and nothing at all to send. So I started toying with the idea of a short-story character I’d developed for a contest at the very same Faith in Fiction blog you just mentioned. It was a humor piece called “<em>The Fellowship of the Golden Emerod</em>” that followed a cranky guy, home sick from work, suffering from severe hemorrhoids and a surprise visit from two young “preachers.” I thought I might extend this guy’s story, or rather back it up and tell some of his backstory, and before I knew it, I had a first chapter and an outline for the next three or four. The character in the novel ultimately turned out to be a lot different than the short-story version, but the overall theme of the two are basically the same: God will use who he wants, to do what he wants, regardless of their intentions or our preconceptions concerning the “legitimacy” of the messenger.</p>
<p>As for intended audience, I don’t know if we ever truly know who our audience will be. I think while writing I was mostly just trying to follow that old saw: Write the book you want to read. So I assumed this was going to be a definite “man’s book,” because of the tone and some of the more brutal scenes. I was thinking readers of Chuck Palahniuk’s <em>Fight Club</em>. But so far it seems the readers who have been most excited and supportive after reading are all women, which of course is perfectly fine by me. I love women, was raised by women, and most of my closest friends are women, so maybe I should have expected that. But really, I’m just thrilled that anyone is reading it at all.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>MIKE</strong></span>: <em>In the Note from the Publisher, it reads: “This book is not a work of theology. Any descriptions, characterizations, or observations of the Divine are those of a fictional narrator and should not be construed to be those of the author or publisher. They should be taken with a grain of salt and, hopefully, a dash of humor.” Why did you include that qualifier?</em></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>CHRISTOPHER</strong></span>: Ah… Somebody actually reads those things!</p>
<p>I put that in because, without revealing too much, God is an essential but unseen character in the story. Any time an author presents God in fiction as an active character, there’s the chance that’s going to conflict with a reader’s understanding and interpretation of God’s “revealed nature,” and I frankly don’t want to argue theological details with readers. That’s not why I wrote the book. But because of how my story happened to arc, the God in <em>A History of Stone and Steel</em> comes across as much more “Old Testament” than I think I’m even comfortable with. I can almost hear the objections already: “Yes, but wrath and judgment is not all there is to God!” And of course it’s not.</p>
<p>This is the fictional story of a man—a blasphemer, a drunk, and something of a ne’er-do-well, who also is in his own way used by God. It’s not intended as a direct commentary on the nature of God, though indirectly, through the events of the story, it does suggest that God always has and will continue to behave in ways we don&#8217;t think He will. Or rather, in ways that our own slippery grasp on morality tells us He should not behave.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>MIKE</strong></span>: <em>Resurgent Books is your own label. Why did you not choose to shop the book to trad publishers? And are you looking to publish other books under that label?</em></p>
<p>I did shop it around for a little bit. In fact, with all the connections I’ve made in publishing over the last ten years I thought, I guess rather naively, that I’d be able to find at least a small publishing house to take it with little trouble. I was wrong. The industry is so overwhelmed and uncertain right now, and even publishers I know fairly well are not really considering new submissions. Some have even closed submissions for the next year or two while they work through a huge backlist, or have all their titles picked out and slated for the next two years. So I figured if my friends don’t have the time or staff to take my novel, the chances of getting strangers at other houses to even look at it was not worth the gamble.</p>
<p>But even if they did, I’d be looking at probably a year minimum to find a publisher, another year for editing, maybe another 18 months for production and release. This would be a problem for the story since I, maybe unwisely, dated the book, with both threads (past and present) in specific years. So waiting 2 – 5 years for publication could mean not only massive rewrites, but that some of the conflicts of certain subplots would be irrelevant by the time it goes to print. I just came to the decision that the time to publish is now, and I came to realize that no one else was going to publish this book for at least 2-3 years. So I’d have to do it myself.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>MIKE</strong></span>: <em>I talk a lot about faith and fiction on my blog, the intersections between Christians and the arts. I recently posted an article entitled “<a href="http://mikeduran.com/2013/04/where-do-artists-fit-in-the-church-2/" target="_blank">Where Do Artists Fit in the Church?</a>” Frankly, the Church has NOT done a great job incorporating writers and poets and artists in the Church’s mission. Either we’re used as tools of propaganda (employing our art to sermonize), or we’re left to “go secular,” and, basically, put our light under a bushel. How do you see the intersection between Christians and the arts? Should the Christian writer be writing just for Christians? If not, how do we navigate being called to “preach the gospel” and simply tell a good story?</em></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>CHRISTOPHER</strong></span>: That’s a pretty complex question, and you may not like my answer. First, I acknowledge there are exceptions to what I’m about to say. Hope Church in Richmond, Virginia, for example, is doing some amazing things in the arts. What they’ve created there feels almost like an informal MFA program. But in a general sense, I don’t think real artists do fit in the American church, or at least not in the Evangelical branches. To clarify, art and artists are certainly utilized in almost all Christian churches, primarily through music and other performance arts, and sometimes through visual art and writing as well. But within so many denominations and congregations, it seems to me always to be primarily about the utility, about how the art can be used. And used most often in place of persuasive argument. I worry many of these traditions are just too deeply rooted in a philosophy and period of history where the tract was the highest and most important end of the written word, and for many folks there, any art that doesn’t at least attempt the same goal as a religious tract will always be something just a little less than “Christian.” And that creates an environment I think a lot of artists find less than welcoming.</p>
<p>I’m reminded of the time I shared a song I’d discovered with a Baptist friend, for whom I still have a lot of respect. The song was “<em>River on Fire</em>,” by the late Gene Eugene. It’s just a gorgeous, heart-breaking piece about a failing relationship, full of longing and sadness, an honest and bittersweet confession of how love often hurts and is not all we hope for. I was sure this friend would love it as well, but he wasn’t at all impressed. There was no message. No neat conclusion about how God is the answer to the singer’s pain. It didn’t even mention Jesus. To my friend, this was supposed to be a “Christian artist” and so if the song didn’t contain the message of the Gospel, it was a waste of his time and an under-utilization of the artist’s talent.</p>
<p>I worry that, even now, after decades of talking about bringing more art into the Church, there are still many in the Evangelical corner who will never be satisfied with mere artistic expression and confession; there must also be conversion. It’s not enough that the work is beautiful; it must also propagate the Church agenda. And so if a work of art doesn’t make some final sales pitch, then to those people that kind of art has no place in the Church at all. In those kinds of settings, at least, the artist is left to, as you say, “go secular.”</p>
<p>I don’t agree, however, that going secular means you also must hide your light under a bushel. If the “light” is an agenda, then yes. Any mainstream editor is going to see through that and send your manuscript packing. But there are many “secular” books that I believe do a fine job of displaying the light and love of God—Leif Enger’s <em>Peace Like a River</em>, John Irving’s <em>A Prayer for Owen Meaney</em>, and Marilynn Robinson’s <em>Gilead</em>, to name just a few. All of these were published outside of the Christian market and, in my opinion, are much better examples of how faith and art can occupy the same space without one snuffing out the light of the other.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>MIKE</strong></span>: <em>You were an editor with Relief Journal for a spell. What kind of experience was that? And what did you learn about writing from being an editor?</em></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>CHRISTOPHER</strong></span>: Well, in a nutshell, I learned how to write. I’m not saying only editors are good writers, because that’s of course not true. But for me, I think there are things I’ve learned on the editor’s side of the desk that I would otherwise never have gotten. My time at <em>Relief</em>, though, was largely a different kind of eye-opener in that it showed me just how many great spiritual writers are out there trying to write for true artistic expression or the love of story, without some hidden agenda of making converts. I mean, I had the chance to edit some spectacular authors who are writing great things from a Christian worldview, but with real literary sensibilities. In other words, not the tract writers I’d encountered in the past (the kind I used to be, in fact), but that mythical brand of “Writer who is Christian” that I’d always hoped was out there, somewhere. At Relief, we received up to 500 submissions a cycle, in fiction, non-fiction, and poetry from these really talented people, and it gave me a lot of hope and courage to tackle my own book. If not for my time working with those authors, I don’t think I would have finished <em>A History of Stone and Steel</em> at all; I would never have believed there was an audience for it.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>MIKE</strong></span>: <em>Congrats again on your new book. And would you do me a favor, and tell your editorial cohort Beth Jusino that I’ve had a Facebook Friend request pending for months?</em></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>CHRISTOPHER</strong></span>: Thanks, Mike. It feels really good to have it out there, if for no other reason than that I can finally move on to some of the other projects on my backburner. As for Beth, offer to send her a nice Belgian ale, and I’ll bet she’ll be your friend for life!</p>
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<p>Great interview, Chris! Thanks again. And remember, his novel <a href="http://www.amazon.com/History-Stone-Steel-Christopher-Fisher/dp/0988697408" target="_blank">A History of Stone and Steel</a> is now available. Looking forward to hearing more from this talented writer.</p>
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		<title>When Is Submission to Authority, Abuse?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 18:51:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Duran</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our oldest daughter, Melody, went through quite a rebellious stretch in her senior year of high school. Up until that point, she&#8217;d been at the top of her class, a model student and child. Then something snapped (which occasionally happens to sixteen year-olds). She began lying to us, sneaking out of the house, and openly [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Our oldest daughter, Melody, went through quite a rebellious stretch in her senior year of high school. Up until that point, she&#8217;d been at the top of her class, a model student and child. Then something snapped (which occasionally happens to sixteen year-olds). She began lying to us, sneaking out of the house, and openly disobeying us. But how do you discipline a sixteen year-old? You can&#8217;t spank them. You can&#8217;t lock them in their room. You can&#8217;t boot them out of the house. Lisa and I were at our wits end. So we looked for more creative ways to discipline her.</p>
<p>One of those ways was to take her bedroom door off its hinges.</p>
<p>With two brothers and a baby sister, this was a blow to Melody&#8217;s privacy. Which we intended. She ended up draping a sheet over the door, which we reluctantly tolerated. If that didn&#8217;t work, next we would take away all her make-up. Soon, things changed. Melody weathered that tough stretch and is now a wonderful married mother of two&#8230; with household rules of her own.</p>
<p>So I was a bit surprised recently to realize that, according to some, the disciplining of our daughter could have been considered&#8230; abuse.<span id="more-22415"></span></p>
<p>This weekend, I posted this on Facebook:</p>
<p><a href="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/FB-2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-22433" alt="FB-2" src="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/FB-2.jpg" width="565" height="162" /></a></p>
<p>To be clear, the reason for my qualifications is that many &#8220;survivor&#8221; networks or &#8220;recovering&#8221; ____________ (fill in the blank, preferably with something of a religiously conservative nature) often seem less about actually promoting healing and more about raging against evangelicalism, fundamentalism, the Bible, organized religion, conservatism, patriarchy, religious kitsch, or dumb Christians.</p>
<p>Well, I received some great links and some important private correspondences. Many thanks to those who responded. One of the links was for <a href="http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/" target="_blank">Quivering Daughters </a>(QD). If you&#8217;re not familiar with the Quiverfull Movement (as I haven&#8217;t been) it&#8217;s a rather authoritarian, ultra-conservative group applying rigid &#8220;biblical&#8221; ideology to issues of Family (contraception, home-schooling, patriarchy, etc.). Some go so far as to define the Quiverfull Movement as a cult. (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quiverfull" target="_blank">The Wikipedia article</a> is a good starting place for those who want more.) As a result, more and more people are exposing Quiverfull, and survivor groups are springing up, seeking to help victims detox from this potentially poisonous brand of fundamentalism. Quivering Daughters is one such group.</p>
<p>The more I perused the QD website, the more it appeared this was the type of site I was looking for. Balanced. Not trying to slam Christianity or foist progressivism. Encouraging grace and forgiveness, rather than victimhood and vindictiveness. Its founder, Hillary McFarland, even wrote <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Quivering-Daughters-Hillary-McFarland/dp/0984468609/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1277171894&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank">a book on the subject</a>. But as I continued researching, I was rather surprised to learn&#8230;</p>
<p><em>not everyone agrees with the anti-Quiverfull crowd</em>.</p>
<p>Shocking, I know.</p>
<p>So a counter site was started named <a href="http://steadfastdaughters.com/" target="_blank">Steadfast Daughters</a> (SD) whose sub-heading explains their mission as</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8230;a biblical response to the &#8220;quivering daughters&#8221; (QD) movement that originated from Hillary McFarland&#8217;s book (and blog), <em>Quivering Daughters: Hope and Healing for the Daughters of Patriarchy</em>.</p></blockquote>
<p>Which means it&#8217;s a biblical response (SD), to a biblical response (QD), to a biblical response (the Quiverful Movement), to secularism. Oy!</p>
<p>While the folks at Steadfast Daughters &#8220;fully acknowledge that true abuse occurs, even in Christian homes,&#8221; they believe that &#8220;according to the writings of some QD proponents, the line between solid biblical teaching and true abuse is blurry at best,&#8221; with the result that &#8220;some solid, biblical teachings may also be considered emotionally or spiritually &#8216;abusive.&#8217;&#8221;  Thus:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8230;we believe it is wrong to blame proponents of real biblical patriarchy (father-rule) for the tyrannical actions of selfish men who cloak themselves in a pseudo-patriarchy that does not resemble Christ-like, biblical headship in the least.</p></blockquote>
<p>This led to return fire from popular blogger Elizabeth Esther in <a href="http://www.elizabethesther.com/2010/12/steadfast-daughters-not-so-fast.html" target="_blank">Steadfast Daughters? Not so fast</a>. Among her many contentions was that SD&#8217;s approach</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8230;entirely misses the point because while they demand that we “define terms” [of abuse] and nail down EXACT specifics, the broken victims bleed to death.</p></blockquote>
<p>Esther is not alone, as you can see in the follow-up comments to that post. The crux of the divide, as far as I can tell, has to do with defining abuse. Under SD&#8217;s Frequently Asked Questions page is a lengthy section entitled <a href="http://steadfastdaughters.com/what-is-abuse/" target="_blank">What Is Abuse? </a>Why is that question important?</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8230;sometimes, when people use the word <em>abuse</em>, they mean other things. Today, the word <em>abuse</em> is used to describe everything from violence, rape, molestation, and verbal cruelty to any form of corporal punishment, hurting someone’s feelings, offending the religious views of another, or even “grounding” a child from something he wants to do. In society’s effort to extend the definition of abuse, the word has nearly lost its meaning.</p></blockquote>
<p>The author, <a href="http://yoursacredcalling.com/blog/" target="_blank">Stacey McDonald</a>, goes on to cite the true account of a 12 year-old girl who was grounded by her father for posting inappropriate pictures of herself online&#8230; <em>and successfully sued him for mistreatment and abuse</em>.</p>
<p>Question: Is grounding your 12 year-old daughter for posting inappropriate pictures of herself online, abuse? If so, then taking Melody&#8217;s door off its hinges might have been grounds for the same charge.</p>
<p>Point is: <strong>The line between discipline, submission, biblical authority and abuse may be a lot finer than we like to admit</strong>. Especially nowadays when autonomy is revered and authority &#8212; primarily religious, parental, and patriarchal authority &#8212; is seen as oppressive and evil. Of course, situations that involve physical violence, demeaning, entrapment, systematic, unchallenged indoctrination, are indisputably abusive. But the term has definitely become squishy. Especially as it relates to biblical authority.</p>
<ul>
<li>Is the Christian man who postures himself as the &#8220;head of the house&#8221; automatically an authoritarian?</li>
<li>Is the woman who sees her role as submitting to her husband really a victim, or a naive enabler?</li>
<li>Are the parents who believe in teaching their children Creationism, home-schooling them, and <em>making</em> them go to church, abusers?</li>
<li>Is the pastor or leadership team wrong to publicly discipline or disfellowship a member?</li>
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<p>Each of these scenarios present countless nuances. Yes, some may cross into abuse. But do all of them? And if not, how do we tell the real abuse from perceived abuse? Or is all perceived abuse, abuse?</p>
<p>The pivot of my own spiritual journey, and probably the most difficult season of my life, was when I was publicly disciplined for &#8220;the sin of pride&#8221; and was asked to step away from the pulpit for a year. This eventually led to the collapse of our church and my leaving the ministry after eleven years. Along the way, some labeled the church a cult and suggested I&#8217;d been manipulated and victimized by an authoritarian senior pastor. Frankly, I&#8217;m still not sure I understand the psychological and spiritual dynamics of that season of my life. Was I victimized? Was I brainwashed? Was I a willing participant? Did I deserve what I got? Was I submitting biblically? Did I go too far in submitting to, or enabling, spiritual abuse? The questions go on and on.</p>
<p>But at the heart of my personal struggle, as with the aforementioned Quiverfull saga, is the definition of abuse. Are we, as Elizabeth Esther suggests, too busy trying to &#8220;define terms&#8221; and &#8220;nail down EXACT specifics,&#8221; that we allow &#8220;the broken victims bleed to death&#8221;? Or as Steadfast Daughters asks, is society seeking to &#8220;extend the definition of abuse,&#8221; thus gutting very biblical, hierarchical structures?</p>
<p>Both have a point.</p>
<p>No doubt, nit-picking terms can be evasive and insensitive to victims. It may even perpetuate an abusive situation! But embracing all charges of abuse can be equally damaging (especially if you&#8217;re the father of a 12 year-old girl who effectively sues you for grounding her).</p>
<p>So what do we do?</p>
<p>Obviously, one of worst things we can do is wink at, or openly defend, potential abuse and extremism in Christian circles. In the aforementioned church I was a part of, a child-rearing program became popular that was entitled <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Growing-Kids-Gods-Way-Parenting/dp/1883035112" target="_blank">Growing Kids God&#8217;s Way</a>. It was a video series and syllabus that many in the church became enamored with. Lisa and I attended a couple sessions (we had four adolescents at the time) but, frankly, thought the program was rather legalistic. So we declined continued participation. Our lack of enthusiasm for the program was frowned upon. It wasn&#8217;t surprising to me that, years later, the group behind the video were charged with having <a href="http://www.equip.org/articles/the-cultic-characteristics-of-growing-families-international/" target="_blank">cultic characteristics</a> and was <a href="http://ezzo.info/resources/timeline/81-timeline/92-brave-new-baby" target="_blank">critiqued in Christianity Today.</a> Point is, if stuff seems legitimately weird and people are getting screwed up from it, we need to take a closer look. Even if our church or theology comes under scrutiny. Which is what Hillary McFarland did at Quivering Daughters, to her credit.</p>
<p>But as Christians, we must also be cautious about hacking away at Scripture. In this case, <strong>because some who hold to biblical patriarchy are authoritarian and abusive, we disavow biblical patriarchy altogether</strong>. This is Stacey McDonald&#8217;s point. Because of some abuse, we discard very biblical structures as &#8220;emotionally or spiritually abusive.&#8221; Thus, all &#8220;biblical patriarchy&#8221; is bad.</p>
<p>Scripture tells believers, &#8220;Obey your leaders and submit to their authority&#8221; (Heb. 13:17). It also commands children to obey their parents, wives to submit to their husbands, leaders to lead, and followers to follow. It commands husbands to love their wives like Christ loved the church and for citizens to obey the laws of the land and pray for those in governance over them. We can juggle these commands all we like, but the Scriptures are pretty clear.</p>
<p>Basically, we are commanded to submit on multiple levels.</p>
<p>And the buck has to stop somewhere.</p>
<p>In the case of Melody, the buck stopped with me. Yes, my wife and I were in complete agreement. We believed God loved Melody, that He&#8217;d loaned her to us, that we were responsible to have her best in mind and instruct her in the way she should go. And we believed it was Melody&#8217;s role to obey us. She wasn&#8217;t hit. She wasn&#8217;t called names. She wasn&#8217;t left unfed. But did we do the right thing in that situation? Was taking her door off its hinges appropriate? Or were we being too hard, even borderline abusive by stripping her of that privacy?</p>
<p>As much as we&#8217;d like a clear line between biblical submission to authority and abuse, I&#8217;m just not sure there is one. Which is why, I think, Quivering Daughters and Steadfast Daughters both have an important role in this discussion.</p>
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		<title>Rob Bell and Andrew Wilson Discuss Homosexuality</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Duran</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This very civil, very intelligent, debate about the legitimacy of homosexual relationships within Christianity is well worth 20 minutes of your viewing time. (Thanks to pastor friend Dennis McGuire for the link.) I&#8217;ll post some thoughts on this later, but I&#8217;d love to hear your observations.]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>This very civil, very intelligent, debate about the legitimacy of homosexual relationships within Christianity is well worth 20 minutes of your viewing time. (Thanks to pastor friend <a href="https://www.facebook.com/dennis.mcguire.9" target="_blank">Dennis McGuire</a> for the link.) I&#8217;ll post some thoughts on this later, but I&#8217;d love to hear your observations.</p>
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		<title>Default Position: Agent on Tightrope</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 12:31:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Duran</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday my agent confessed that she &#8220;messed up royally.&#8221; Actually,  Rachelle&#8217;s post was a clarification of her previous post entitled Will My Publisher Let Me Self-Publish Too? This post stirred up lots of pushback, most notably from self-published authors who felt she was siding with &#8220;Big Pub.&#8221; Frankly, I thought it was an overreaction on [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://www.rachellegardner.com/2013/05/agents-represent-authors/" target="_blank">Yesterday my agent confessed that she &#8220;messed up royally.&#8221;</a> Actually,  Rachelle&#8217;s post was a clarification of her previous post entitled <a href="http://www.rachellegardner.com/2013/05/will-my-publisher-let-me-self-publish-too/" target="_blank">Will My Publisher Let Me Self-Publish Too? </a>This post stirred up lots of pushback, most notably from self-published authors who felt she was siding with &#8220;Big Pub.&#8221;</p>
<p>Frankly, I thought it was an overreaction on the part of many of the commenters and reminded me a lot of <a href="http://mikeduran.com/2012/03/heres-why-you-should-wait-before-self-publishing-your-novel/" target="_blank">THIS POST</a> where I suggested that waiting to self-publish was a good idea, was linked to some guerrilla self-publishers, called bad names, and ended up doing a lot of back-tracking. I felt a similar (over-) reaction occurred toward Rachelle&#8217;s post.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong. There was lots of reasonable, civil, compelling arguments for why self-pubbing is better than traditional publishing and how big publishers can and do take advantage of authors.</p>
<p>Perhaps the big bat was the one swung by James Scott Bell in <a href="http://www.rachellegardner.com/2013/05/will-my-publisher-let-me-self-publish-too/#comment-886664433" target="_blank">his lengthy comment</a>, which began:</p>
<blockquote><p>I found the very form of the question somewhat disconcerting. &#8220;Will my publisher LET ME?&#8221; Like I&#8217;m in third grade? Rather, the question should simply be, &#8220;How May I Self-Publish Successfully?&#8221; I&#8217;m not owned by a publishing company. I am not begging for Kibble. I am a writer who knows what he&#8217;s doing, who can deliver the goods, and to whom readers pay because of said goods.</p>
<p>Writers who are &#8220;gung ho&#8221; to write more and make more money are doing what writers only WISHED they could do in the &#8220;old days.&#8221; And our mantra is, we can work with publishers, too, as long as a mutually beneficial deal can be worked out. Which is how it should be.</p></blockquote>
<p>The comment thread is actually very informative. It clearly gives you the sense that the tide is turning (has turned?) and the chips are on the side of the &#8220;underdog.&#8221; And, frankly, some of the anger is warranted. I mean, I&#8217;ve invested far more time and money to market my books and further my brand than any publisher has. This doesn&#8217;t mean I will, henceforth, forgo traditional publishing. It means I&#8217;m going in with the realization that I still need to work my ass off.</p>
<p>What I found most interesting, however, was the insinuation that Rachelle&#8217;s post showed she was on the side of big publishers and not being an advocate for her clients.</p>
<p>I thought this was absurd.</p>
<p>Granted, this could be because I actually know Rachelle, have worked with her, and have never gotten the sense that she does not have my best interest in mind or that she&#8217;s a shill for the evil &#8220;Big Pub.&#8221; In fact, I&#8217;ve self-published two books since joining her team. No strings attached. And she&#8217;s been nothing but encouraging along the way.</p>
<p>Which is why I appreciated what Ramona Richards, a novelist and acquisitions editor, said on Rachelle&#8217;s follow-up post:</p>
<blockquote><p>Rachelle, your posts don&#8217;t often surprise me, but this one did. Anyone who would think you would be on the side of a publisher over a client is either 1) new; 2) not paying attention; 3) never negotiated a contract with you. As a &#8220;traditional&#8221; publisher who HAS done that last one, I know from personal experience that you are an excellent advocate for your clients. The industry is undergoing a sea-change right now, and there are a lot of unknowns. Your devotion to your clients is not one of them.</p></blockquote>
<p>Amen.</p>
<p>I think Rachelle was right to issue a follow-up, apologize for her &#8220;royal mess-up,&#8221; and clarify her position. <strong>I couldn&#8217;t help but wonder if her mea culpa is indicative of the tenuous author / agent relationship created by the new world of publishing</strong>. In fact, I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised to see many similar &#8220;clarifications&#8221; in the near future on the part of agents assuring clients and potential clients that they are not lapdogs for traditional publishers and can play a legitimate role in an author&#8217;s career.</p>
<p>Which means that the default position for literary agents will be teetering on the tightrope somewhere between those &#8220;evil&#8221; publishers and us newly empowered, and quite ready for payback, authors.</p>
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		<title>Nanny Highverse on &#8220;Deep (vs. Shallow) POV&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 12:10:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Duran</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been said that most people spend the first half of their life making the last half miserable. This adage seems equally applicable to the writers I know. In this way: We spend the second half of our writing life unlearning the rules we learned in the first half. One such rule that I&#8217;ve had [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/evileye.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-22388" alt="evileye" src="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/evileye-300x300.jpg" width="300" height="300" /></a>It&#8217;s been said that most people spend the first half of their life making the last half miserable.</p>
<p>This adage seems equally applicable to the writers I know. In this way: <strong>We spend the second half of our writing life unlearning the rules we learned in the first half.</strong></p>
<p>One such rule that I&#8217;ve had a hard time breaking regards POV (Point of View). Some writing instructors consider POV one of the most important of all the writing rules in that it is the lens through which a story is told. Not only has that rule found root in the fertile soil of my legalistic brain, it is now bearing fruit. Shriveled, stinky fruit.</p>
<p>In each of the three novels I&#8217;ve written (one currently unpublished), I&#8217;ve approached POV differently. This was done intentionally. In <em>The Resurrection</em>, I employed third person and only two POVs, a man and a woman&#8217;s. In<em> The Telling</em>, I used third person again but doubled that with four POVs, one of them being a bad guy. In <em>The Ghost Box</em>, I tried first person POV.</p>
<p>But apparently, like a hidden chamber in Nanny Highverse&#8217;s estate, I&#8217;ve stumbled upon another <em>level</em> of POV. A secret level. One for the (clears throat) advanced.</p>
<p>By way of example. The following POV is told through Nanny&#8217;s:</p>
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<h3>Nanny opened the chamber door and peeked inside. She smelled mold and wrinkled her nose. As she scanned the dusty shelves, she noticed the pickle jar had been overturned. Nanny gasped. She feared that she would never find her pet tarantula, Samantha, again.</h3>
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<p>Okay, forget that Nanny has a pet tarantula named Samantha. This paragraph breaks an important POV rule. Sure, it’s probably not unlike any number of paragraphs, in any number of books, on any number of bestseller lists. It’s descriptive, grammatically correct, and probably passable from a publisher’s perspective. But this sentence is not true to POV. And herein lies my peeve, er, new discovery.</p>
<p>Allow me to demonstrate by tweaking this paragraph:</p>
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<h3>Nanny opened the chamber door and peeked inside. She wrinkled her nose at the odor of mold. Dust blanketed the shelves, and the pickle jar lay overturned. She gasped. Would Nanny ever find her pet tarantula, Samantha, again?</h3>
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<p>You see, <strong>if I’m “in” Nanny’s POV, I don’t need to be told “she smelled” anything</strong>. Just describe “the odor of mold.” And if “the pickle jar had been overturned” on “the dusty shelves,” I don’t need to tell you that “she scanned the dusty shelves” or that “she noticed” the toppled jar. All I need to do is show you the overturned jar on the dusty shelves. Remember, I’m in her head.  And finally, if I’m living the story through Nanny’s POV,<strong> I don’t need to tell you “she feared” anything. I need to <em>show</em> her fearing, wondering, and worrying.</strong></p>
<p>This is the &#8220;correct&#8221; use of POV.</p>
<p>Or so I thought.</p>
<p>Upon sharing this revelation with some other writers, I was informed that what I was talking about was not POV but&#8230; &#8220;deep POV.&#8221;</p>
<p>This bothered me.</p>
<p>So <strong>have I been writing &#8220;shallow POV&#8221; all this time?</strong> And if &#8220;shallow POV&#8221; is permissible, what the heck am I doing worrying about it? Who cares if Nanny &#8220;wrinkled her nose at the odor of mold&#8221; or just &#8220;smelled mold&#8221;?! Apparently, readers and publishers don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>So, thanks to Nanny Highverse, I have discovered another writing rule that, apparently, needs <em>unlearned</em>.</p>
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		<title>Adoption as Evangelism</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 May 2013 14:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Duran</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[First pro-lifers are accused of NOT adopting. Then pro-lifers are accused of WRONGLY adopting. If you get the sense it&#8217;s a no-win situation, you&#8217;re probably right. The article in Mother Jones that started the latest round of attacks on evangelical culture, Orphan Fever: The Evangelical Movement’s Adoption Obsession, argues that one result of Christians’ efforts [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>First pro-lifers are accused of NOT adopting. Then pro-lifers are accused of WRONGLY adopting.</p>
<p>If you get the sense it&#8217;s a no-win situation, you&#8217;re probably right.</p>
<p>The article in Mother Jones that started the latest round of attacks on <a href="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Jesus-children.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-22377" alt="Jesus-children" src="http://mikeduran.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Jesus-children-248x300.jpg" width="248" height="300" /></a>evangelical culture, <a href="http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2013/04/christian-evangelical-adoption-liberia" target="_blank">Orphan Fever: The Evangelical Movement’s Adoption Obsession,</a> argues that one result of Christians’ efforts to adopt orphaned children is that children are obtained (often illegally) and being placed in oppressive, fundamentalist homes in order for parents to evangelize them.</p>
<p>The article was promptly rebutted by conservatives as <a href="http://jonathanmerritt.religionnews.com/2013/04/18/mother-jones-shameful-attack-on-the-christian-adoption-movement/" target="_blank">a shameful attack</a>, and <a href="http://www.patrolmag.com/2013/04/23/alisa-harris/no-kathryn-joyce-is-not-attacking-good-christian-parents/" target="_blank">defended by progressives</a> on <a href="http://www.thenation.com/article/160096/adoption-commandment" target="_blank">numerous</a> <a href="http://anthonybsusan.wordpress.com/2013/04/18/evangelical-arrogance-and-the-mission-of-adoption/" target="_blank">fronts</a>. Which seems to indicate the issue is more than just purely humanitarian.</p>
<p>Are there wrong motives for adopting? Absolutely. Are there bad parents who adopt? Yes. Are there fringe organizations wrongly benefiting from the evangelical adoption movement? I&#8217;m sure there are. Are some adopted children brought into abusive, even cult-like, homes? It appears so.</p>
<p>But <strong>are there enough of these abuses to discredit the entire movement</strong> &#8212; or the practice of &#8220;Christian adoption,&#8221; domestic or international &#8212; in general? No.</p>
<p>After following this debate for a while, one issue that has stood out to me is the insinuation that adoption as evangelism is wrong. I understand the white savior complex, that some adopt for brownie points, and that others may be trying to assuage  the guilt of their own affluence. But <strong>what better reason is there to adopt than that a couple is a <em>Christian</em> family?</strong></p>
<p>My wife and I have raised four children and are now working on four grandchildren. Our faith plays a huge part in our approach to child-rearing. Isn&#8217;t this natural? For whatever reasons, the issue of adoption has become a part of our family&#8217;s life. For about five years, Lisa and I have financially supported a Christian orphanage in Thailand, one boy in particular. We have some close friends who adopted two Sudanese children. Our pastor has adopted two children. And two of our own children are in the process of adopting children. Which means that, one day, God willing, I will be the grandfather of an adopted child.</p>
<p>Does the fact that these children are being adopted into Christian homes matter? If it doesn&#8217;t, then what&#8217;s the value in being a Christian at all?</p>
<p>This isn&#8217;t to insinuate that non-Christians cannot raise good, happy, productive children. That&#8217;s untrue. But if I do not believe that Christ is the Way to God, as He claimed, that life and happiness are intimately connected to ones relationship with God, and that a correct view of the afterlife is essential to approaching our present life, why choose Christianity over any other religion?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a Christian because I believe Christ is superior to all other religious figures and Christianity is superior to all other ideologies and world religions.</p>
<p>Am I wrong for telling my children, grand-children, and any future adopted grandchildren this?</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve home-schooled our four children and, during that time, occasionally  came in touch with more rigid, fundamentalist adherents. I approached them the same way I approach any &#8220;Christian&#8221; who acts oddly and exists on the fringe &#8212; I keep them at arms length. Weird Christian home-school parents don&#8217;t invalidate Christianity any more than bad humanist parents invalidate humanism.</p>
<p>Point is: <strong>We should expect parents of any particular worldview or religion to raise their adopted children thusly</strong>.</p>
<p>Which means adoption is always somewhat evangelistic.</p>
<p>I mean, do we really expect a child to be adopted into a Muslim or Buddhist family and not be deeply influenced by those religions? The atheist who doesn&#8217;t care if his adopted child grows up to be a Christian should rethink how essential atheism is as belief system. Sure, it would be wrong to approach adoption as simply a means to &#8220;advance the Kingdom&#8221; and further an ideology. But <strong>being indifferent to what worldview your children &#8212; adopted or otherwise &#8212; choose to believe is bad parenting.</strong></p>
<p>The point of us having kids was not to evangelize them, make them clones of ourselves or robots for our religion. We wanted children to share in our love and experience the wonder of life. We wanted to be fruitful and multiply. We want to see our offspring spread life and goodness and grace and love.</p>
<p><strong>Imparting the Gospel, and attempting to live it, is the best thing I have ever done for my children</strong>.</p>
<p>Do we want our adopted grandchildren to become Christians? Absolutely! Will we do everything in our power to help them get there? How could we not.</p>
<p>So if a couple is wanting to adopt strictly to indoctrinate clones, then something is really wrong. But if a couple is wanting to adopt out of the recognition that they have, both spiritually, morally, and materially, resources that can potentially lead a child to a much better, happier life, both now and for eternity, more power to them.</p>
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