Here comes a Baptist, here comes a Jew
There goes a Mormon and a Muslim too
I see a Buddist and a Hindu
I see a Catholic and I see youWe’re all god’s children
We’re all god’s children
We’re all god’s children
Why can’t we be
One big happy familyFrom Alan Jackson’s, We’re All God’s Children
How often have you heard the stat- ement, We’re all God’s children? Probably a lot. Heck, you may have, on occasion, even said it yourself. The statement, though often innocent, is fallacious and biblically unsupportable.
While Scripture declares all people are God’s creation (Col. 1:16), fused with His image (Gen. 1:26), and madly loved (Jn. 3:16), it designates only those who are “born again” (Jn. 3:3) as children of God.
But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name (Jn. 1:12 NKJV)
If a person is given the right to become a child of God, they must not be one. And the right must be exceedingly precious.
The Bible is narrow in this regard. Apart from racial and cultural distinctions, it defines only two categories of people: saved and unsaved, lost and found. The differential between the two may not always be clear (see the Parable of the Tares and the Wheat, Matthew 13:24-30, 36-43), but Scripture is clear about a divide. The lost — those who have not “received” or “believed” (Jn. 1:12) — are never called children of God.
And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins, in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience, among whom also we all once conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, just as the others. (Eph. 2:1-4 NKJV)
Notice, before they were “made alive” they were “dead in traspasses and sins,” considered “sons of disobedience” and “by nature children of wrath.” Romans 9:8 is equally blunt: “those who are the children of the flesh, these are not the children of God.†And then Jesus told the Pharisees, “You are of your father the devil” (Jn. 8:44), without blinking.
The apostle John references two unique breeds, species or tribes:
This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are: Anyone who does not do what is right is not a child of God; nor is anyone who does not love his brother (I Jn. 1:10 NIV).
Between “children of God” and “children of the devil,” there is only silence. Perhaps this is why Scripture offers so few choices — it’s either God or Satan, life or death, blessing or curse, light or darkness, truth or lies, the broad or narrow road. Furthermore, the fact that there are only two final destinations — Heaven and Hell — is indicative of only two types of residents.
Alan Jackson may be a fine performer, but he is not a theologian. Like it or not, there is a place called hell and unless we turn from our hellish natures, we will reside there forever. Yes, that’s narrow and hard. But it’s also biblical. As with many such contentions, the arguement is with Scripture, not Christians.
Peter Kreeft puts it this way:
If there is no hell, a religious indifference follows. If faith in Christ as Savior is not necessary, we should recall all the missionaries and apologize for all the martyrs. What a waste of passion and energy and time and life! If there is no such thing as fire, fire departments are a distraction and waste… The exact same authority which is our only authority for believing God is love also assures us that there is a hell. Either we accept both on the same ground or reject both on the same ground, for they stand on the same ground. (Kreeft, Handbook of Christian Apologetics, pgs. 284-285)
So are we all God’s children? Well it depends on how the question’s asked. If it means, Are we all uniquely created and loved by God? the answer is yes. But if it means, Are we all going to heaven? the answer is unequivocally no.
I just went through this with a friend of mine—again. It’s one of my bugaboos.
I always answer the question: “No, we’re not all God’s children. We’re all God’s creation. Big difference. BUT..we can all BE God’s children. That door is open.”
It is a pet peeve of mine, though. I know it’s kindly meant, but one can be sincerely, theologically wrong.
Mir
I’m with you and Mir. It’s a sweet sentiment-and you’ve never heard it so sweet as when a little old southern lady says it-but it’s just wrong. No one comes to the Father, but through Jesus.
The more we study and learn what God says in the Bible, the more we find many truths like this very distinguishable by God … God is/does …; God is not/does not ….
There are only two forces in this world.
Amazing how we pick and choose what we believe when it’s so plainly written: “I’m a good person; I do good things,” my brother. “It’s just sex,” my single, female friend. “I’ll pray for you,” many who believe in all sorts of “gods.” “I don’t believe I need to go to church as a Christian,” my neighbor. “Oh my —!” many whom I know in church who have not learned how seriously God values and protects His Name. “We’re all god’s children,” … wow, does Satan not like that lie!
Very good post, Mike.
Kreeft quote is great. We are all God’s children- I guess it’s something people say to make themselves feel good. It’s easy. You don’t have to do anything to be someone’s child. You are just born your parents’ child. If we were all just God’s children automatically, it wouldn’t matter what we did. That’s why the world likes that statement. The truth is that we are ophans, homeless and destined for hell. There is a loving Father who wants desperately to adopt every lost child, but many haven’t accepted His offer of a home because having a Father means having someone to answer to, someone who might discapline on occasion. Good post, Mike.
another thing, if people were Gods Children because God loves them, did God love nobody in the Old Testament? The phrase Child of God is found only in the New Testament. When examined in its context, it cannot be separated from Salvation, that is coming into Gods Family through Faith in Christ. I like it! It is almost impossible to convince anyone brain washed by the world view popularized in the renaissance of the 60’s. The pull of Humanism perfectly timed to a cultural era is so “natural”, and pure and beautifully subtle, that it makes the one who contradicts it, look evil and unloving and out of touch. But isn’t this how the ‘WORLD” views the God of the Bible? How could a “loving” God exclude so many “Good” people. (especially the one posing the question) It is just further evidence and support that we “are not” all Gods Children.
Hey, dale. I appreciate your comments, but don’t turn them into a tirade, okay?
Thanks for the comments, Mir, Carol, Ame and Janet. What makes this statement so hard to answer is not knowing the heart or intentions of the one making it. On one level, affirming that we are all loved by and precious to God is important. And I think that sentiment can be found in this assertion. But in most cases, it’s a careless whitewashing of Scripture, a reckless liberal wish/dream we super-impose upon our concept of God. If the Bible was not the final arbiter on these matters, public opinion and preference would run rampant… which it has. Grace to you!
regardless of intention, nobody but Christ was born a Child of God. Once a person is “born again”, he is a Child of God through faith in Christ. In this relative world, with truth being what you want it to be, you can make any leap…..God loves everybody….everyone is a child of God. An ounce of truth and some deception and ain’t it great?…………we’re all Gods Children, that makes everything right. Go to bed and cover up your head cuz Santa Clause is comin’ tonight. Who you gonna believe , “here comes Santa Clause, or the Bible. The majority of Bible believers choose ‘Here comes Santa Clause” on this one.
this clears it all up! “Here comes Santa Clause…” has messed up a lot of people. And then, Crosby, Stills, Nash and young song “Woodstock”, same thing. Amazing how many Christians have ought into the myth that”We are all Gods Children.” When I tell people it isn’t so, they cannot believe it! So, they usually do not. They say God loves everybody, so we are all Gods Children. I love apple pie, but it is not my child. And I love dogs…
Alan “John Lennon” Jackson, what a mind blower! One big happy family? The song should have been called “Fools Paradise.” That is where you can have one big happy inclusive family with no thought of Gods views.
dale, I’m sorry. But if you want to say something respectfully do so. But please don’t abuse my site. If you have something else to say, please contact me via my email, which you can find in the ABOUT section above.